Manasquan Brielle June 2025

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INSPIRED ART

MAIE AND ALEXANDRA VAGA

TEACHING LEGACY

THREE GENERATIONS, ONE CALLING

16 Pure Stoke

Hit the waves this summer with Operation Beachhead, the organization that provides surfing opportunities for disabled people.

20 Inspiration Runs in the Family

Sisters Maie and Alexandra Vaga have turned their creative upbring into fulfilling careers that share the joy of art with others.

24 Three Generations, One Calling

For three local women, education is more than just a career, it’s a lifelong passion that’s passed down from mother to daughter.

IN EVERY ISSUE

4 PUBLISHER’S NOTE Living on the edge

6 AROUND TOWN Local happenings

12 LOCAL TASTES Blue zones

28 WELLNESS WATCH A patriotic kickoff to summer

30 BOOK NOOK Hot off the press in paperback

32 PHOTO OP Baseline drive COVER

Manasquan’s Matt Mattessich catches a wave with the help of some friends from Operation Beachhead.

Photograph

by Jeff

Rataski

yLIVING

ON THE EDGE

YEARS AGO, I was sitting on the beach, and I had a minor epiphany. For some people, this might seem like common knowledge, but for me it was a genuine lightbulb moment: As I sat there with my butt in the sand, looking out over the Atlantic, it occurred to me that America begins and ends at the beach. For those of us in Manasquan, Brielle, or any of the neighboring coastal towns, we are literally living on the edge of this great country. If you’re looking at a map or a globe, our towns are somewhere under that razor thin line that separates the green from the blue.

Maybe that’s why so many people find the beach to be a source of peace and tranquility, even during the height of a crowded summer. At the beach, you can step right off of the edge, wade into the water and leave the continent for a while. All of your responsibilities and possessions are quite literally behind you when you’re swimming out to sea.

The beach is also one of the very few public places that goes virtually untouched by time and progress. It’s easy to see the passage of time if you look around our homes and storefronts. 50 years ago, Main Street looked very different. 100 years ago, it was virtually unrecognizable. But the next time you sit on the beach and look out at the water, consider that this view never changes. A thousand years ago, the Native Americans must have enjoyed what was basically the same view.

On that note, Molly Mechler has contributed a great cover story this month about an incredible organization. If you’re a surfer, you will really appreciate this article. And if you’ve never been surfing, we hope that this piece might inspire you to try it. Molly’s story (and the amazing cause behind it) is a testament to the magical healing powers of Mother Ocean.

OK, maybe I’m beginning to sound a little kooky—but I know that all my fellow beach people understand. There’s no better time and place to hit the sand than at the Jersey Shore during the beautiful month of June. Until next month, keep living on the edge.

Christopher Baldi Editor

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Local Happenings

Here’s what’s new around town!

May 31, 2025

Get ready for battle, as the Brielle Parks and Recreation Commission presents the 13th Annual North Vs South Sports Challenge!

Events include tennis, pickleball and more! Captain John Devereux leads the North side and Captain Steve Speicher leads the South side for a whole day of food, fun and physical challenges. Not registered? Come watch, donate and participate in a great cause! This year’s event raises money to support the Leso family to help offset medical costs for their 5-year-old son Donovan.

Let summer begin as Manasquan’s Weston Gallery hosts a series of trunk shows, showcasing exquisite jewelry and crafts from renowned local artisans. On June 6 and 7, experience the beautiful natural gemstones of Symmetry Jewelry On June 28, see the nautically inspired styles of designer Hali MacLaren’s HKM Jewelry, along with Oshin Oil creator Marilyn Schlossbach, who is debuting an Oshin Oil candle. Delicious summer treats to entice your palate will be served!

June 7, 2025 CASTING CALL!

From 9 a.m. to noon, the Manasquan Fishing Club hosts its annual Youth Fishing Clinic at Mac’s Pond. Ages 5 to 11 are invited to participate if accompanied by an adult. The cost is $10 per angler. Register online at the Manasquan Community Pass.

June 26, 2025 CAR SHOW

Start your engines and get ready for the summer’s first Meet Me on Main Street Car Show From 6 to 10 p.m. Manasquan’s Main Street will be hosting some of the coolest whips, rigs and hot rods on the Jersey Shore. Can’t make it? The Car Show continues across two more nights in July and August!

June 14, 2025

ART WALK

The Woman’s Club of Manasquan presents the 2025 Manasquan Art Walk! From 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., check out the best from local and regional fine artists, exhibiting and selling work across a variety of mediums from painting, drawing, collage, photography and more. Also featuring live music from some of the best local musicians. Rain date Sunday June 15.

June 14, 2025

FOOD TRUCK FESTIVAL

Brielle Local PBA 395 presents their sixth annual Brielle Food Truck Festival! Bring your appetite and the whole family to Green Acres Park from noon to 5 p.m. for kid activities, a beer garden, live music and the very best local food vendors. Admission is free and proceeds benefit local charities.

June 26, 2025

The Manasquan Sea Lavender Garden Club presents their 2025 Garden Tour From 9:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m., take a tour of ten local private gardens, each lovingly created and cared for by their owners. Proceeds support local public gardens that are maintained by club members, along with monthly horticulture programs and special club projects. Local artists and musicians will be featured at various stops.

The Garden Tour is chaired by Nancy Tischio and planned with help from the club’s 24 members. Several Manasquan restaurants will be offering ticketholders a 20% discount, valid for lunch on the day of the tour. These restaurants include: Paramount Diner, Peach Pit Cafe, Town Grill, Squan Tavern and The Committed Pig. Rain date: Friday, June 27. In the event of rain, stay tuned to the Manasquan Sea Lavender Garden Club Facebook page or call 732-5282198 for details.

“Planning for this year’s Garden Tour began last June, when members set out to find some of Manasquan’s most interesting and beautiful gardens.” says Garden Club member Lynda Leykam. “We keep in touch with home owners throughout the year, and we always manage to have at least ten beautiful gardens on the tour. Our members act as hostesses. We have a pot luck at a member’s house the night before to celebrate all the work. It’s a lovely day. “

Prior to June 26, tickets can be purchased for $30 via Eventbrite or by cash or check at these local Manasquan stores: Booktowne, Manasquan Lighting or Weston Gallery. Day of tour tickets are $35 and can be purchased for cash or check at the St. Denis Parish Center parking lot, located at 119 Virginia Ave., Manasquan. Tickets purchased through Eventbrite can be picked up at the same location. Each ticket includes a map of the locations. Photographs courtesy of The Manasquan Sea Lavender Garden Club.

In April, Brielle Fire Department Chief Daryl Schambach proudly accepted a newly refurbished “Brielle Fire Department No. 1” sign, courtesy of Brielle’s Mike Smith. As a lifelong Brielle resident, Mike was proud to take on the task of creating a well-appointed sign for the town’s dedicated fire department. On Sept. 25, 1976, Mike and Linda Smith were the first wedding held at the firehouse’s Granden Hall. Today, Mike and Linda are the owners of Manasquan’s Paramount Diner.

April 19, 2025 SUICIDE PREVENTION

Manasquan’s SYST(EM) Athletics hosted a wildly successful fundraiser for suicide prevention, which doubled their goal and raised over $5,000 for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. The event was coorganized by 14-year-old Sofia DeLuca. “So many people struggle with mental health, and I wanted to do something to let those people know they have support,” said DeLuca. “It was great to see everybody having so much fun. I’m so thankful to everybody who helped us raise so much money.”

APRIL 4, 2025

The Manasquan Fishing Club held their annual awards dinner to recognize their members’ 2024 achievements. Winners included:

Largest Striped Bass (boat)

Bob Morrow

Largest Striped Bass (surf)

John Sheehan

Largest Yellowfin Tuna (ocean)

Chris Jewel

Largest Bluefish

Eric Wasnesky

Largest Fluke (overall)

Fred Truex

Largest Fluke (ocean)

Ed Kerekes

Largest Fluke (Manasquan River)

Joe Mariano

Largest Blackfish (ocean)

Joe Choma

Largest Blackfish (non-ocean)

Ed Kerekes

Largest Black Seabass (ocean)

Al Kulaszewski

MFC Outstanding Service Award 2024: Captain Jim Freda and Jack Pongracz

Coming this fall: Introducing Garden State Classical Academy, a private Christian Classical American school opening in Sea Girt. Combining a content-rich curriculum with the belief that classical and civic virtues are essential for forming responsible American citizens. Grounded in the Christian faith, the Academy aims to serve over 85 students from Pre-K to grade 4, and will add one grade each year, until it serves grades Pre-K to 12. Garden State Classical Academy is a Hillsdale College K-12 Candidate Member School. Enrollment is currently open for PK3 to grade 4. For more details, visit GSClassical.org or follow @gsclassical on social media.

Let’s Talk (and Cook) Blue Zones

RECENTLY, I ATTENDED a talk on Blue Zones, the geographic regions where people are known to live exceptionally long lives—often beyond 100 years—due to several lifestyle factors. There are five of these Blue Zones regions: Okinawa (Japan), Ikaria (Greece), Loma Linda (USA), Sardinia (Italy) and Nicoya (Costa Rica). What’s most interesting about these areas is that despite being geographically and culturally different, their populations share a number of lifestyle habits that apparently contribute to their longevity. Researchers have identified nine of these principles, some of which I’d like to discuss, along with a few questions to ponder.

Whether it’s gardening, yardwork, walking to a local grocery or kneading their own bread, the people in Blue Zones “move naturally.” Interestingly enough, they generally don’t go to the gym to stay fit but spend a lot of time moving their bodies naturally, simply in the course of their everyday lives. What activities do you do regularly and naturally that challenge you physically?

hour. Do you have a built-in daily habit that allows you to decompress?

The Blue Zones regions also have routines to de-stress built into their days. For example, Ikarians take a midday nap, and Sardinians do happy

Finally, all Blue Zones eat a predominantly plant-based diet. Beans are the cornerstone of most centenarian diets, and meat is eaten

very sparingly, if at all. When was the last time you had a good ol’ fashioned legume on your plate?

After this Blue Zones talk, I reflected on the implications for our beloved Jersey Shore, and I couldn’t help but feel a bit conflicted. How applicable are these principles to my own life, my family and my community? Many of

us don’t live within walking distance of our grocery store or many of the places we frequent. The infrastructure of our neighborhoods was built for cars, not for people. Also, the stresses of American modern life feel ubiquitous, far more than a nap or a glass of wine at 5 p.m. might mitigate. And don’t get me started on the perils of living in a toxic food environment where cheap and unhealthy food is available at every corner we turn!

The bottom line is, unfortunately, we are often nudged by our environment to make the wrong choices for our health. I don’t mean to be pessimistic, but I think it’s important to recognize this reality in order to take the right corrective action. I think that following many of the Blue Zones’ principles of longevity in our locality will require much effort and planning, as well as a support system that’s on board, be it your family or friend group. It won’t be easy, but if you’ve lived in New Jersey long enough, you should be used to doing hard things!

There’s one more principle that I think is worth highlighting, and that is having a sense of purpose. The Okinawans call it “Ikigai” (pronounced ee-kee-gahy) or “reason for being.” Ikigai is about finding the intersection of what you love, what you are good at, what the world needs and what you can be paid for. What gets you out of bed in the morning? To me, this is the most important principle. Without purpose, why are we even striving to live a long, healthy life in the first place? What’s your Ikigai?

Chef Darren hosts various events, such as farm-to-table dinners and cooking classes throughout the Jersey Shore. In 2024, he launched a small-batch soup brand called Süp, which sells in select local groceries and farmer’s markets. Visit Chef Darren’s website at darrenmonroe.co and check out his socials @darren.monroe.

Baked Miso-Glazed Tofu

(Serves 4)

This month’s recipe is a creative way to meet your daily bean quota with a Japanese-inspired tofu dish. It also works great on the grill. Enjoy!

INGREDIENTS

¼ cup mirin

¼ cup broth or stock (I use Two River Mushroom Broth)

2 rounded tablespoons white or yellow miso

1 teaspoon sugar

1 teaspoon dark sesame oil

1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil

1 teaspoon soy sauce

1 14 ounce block of firm tofu (the firmer the better)

INSTRUCTIONS

1. To make the miso glaze, combine mirin and broth in a small saucepan and bring to a boil over high heat. Boil for about 2 minutes, then turn heat to low and stir in miso and sugar. Whisk over medium heat until sugar dissolves, then whisk in sesame oil. Simmer for a few minutes until thickened to a drippy glaze.

2. Heat oven to 400 degrees. Line a sheet pan with parchment and spray with oil. Transfer glaze to a wide bowl and whisk in soy sauce and extra virgin olive oil. Cut tofu into 10 to 12 triangular slices. Dip each slice into glaze, making sure to coat both sides. Transfer to a baking sheet and bake for about 20 minutes until edges darken in color. You can also fry slices off in a pan with some oil.

3. Serve over sauteed shiitake mushrooms, rice or salad. Top with sliced green onions.

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Pure Stoke

For the men and women of Operation Beachhead, surfing is more than a sport. It’s a source of hope and strength.

BY MOLLY MECHLER

AAT 22 YEARS OLD, while serving our country in Vietnam, Michael Ricci was seriously wounded by a homemade grenade. He spent several months in an induced coma, followed by extensive rehabilitation. He returned from service in a state of emotional devastation, and with shrapnel permanently embedded throughout his body.

But even in the face of his overwhelming injuries, Ricci refused to be defined by trauma. His passion for sports and adventure led him to an adaptive ski program in Aspen, Colorado, where he eventually learned

I live every day in wonder. I look outside the window, and I am in awe that I’m still around.”

-Michael Ricci, founder of Operation Beachhead.

to ski on one leg.

In Aspen, Michael asked his ski instructor for advice on how he could stay active during the summer months. The instructor suggested surfing. Ricci had no prior surfing experience, but once he tried it, he was inspired to bring adaptive water sports home to the Jersey Shore. Immediately, Ricci realized that the thrill of the ocean had the power to change lives.

In 2011, Ricci launched Operation Beachhead with a single surfboard, a kayak and a few friends. From this simple beginning, Ricci and his

team were united by a mission to provide adaptive, adventurous and safe recreational sports and social activities for veterans and individuals with disabilities. Over the past fourteen years, this incredible program has grown into a community of hope, healing, humility and plenty of humor.

STORMING THE SURF

The name “Operation Beachhead” is an homage to Ricci’s days in the military; it means to establish a secure ground or, in other words, to control the beach. Participants face a range

SUMMER SURF

of conditions or disabilities, including PTSD, MS, autism or in some cases, the lingering effects of a serious injury. Through careful instruction and encouragement, staff members help participants learn to catch and ride waves—even those with no prior experience. And the results are often moments of pure bliss.

The therapeutic benefits of surfing are well documented for both mental and physical health. The rhythmic motion of paddling can function as a moving meditation, calming the nervous system. The physical challenges of the sport release endorphins and dopamine, while lowering cortisol (the stress hormone). Direct sunlight exposure is proven to increase serotonin, which is key for stabilizing mood and fighting depression.

Furthermore, the confidence and resilience that comes with overcoming a wipeout cannot be overstated. It’s a hard sport to master, but an easy one to fall in love with. With every new wave, participants reclaim their joy, strength and independence.

Operation Beachhead’s event dates are posted on Facebook and shared through word of mouth. Volunteers are always needed and appreciated, whether it’s to surf alongside participants, assist on the beach or offer words of encouragement and smiles.

Operation Beachhead Summer 2025 Surf Events

Location: Pitney Avenue, Spring Lake

• June 7

• June 21

• July 5

• July 19

• August 2

• August 16

A SWELL OF SUPPORT

Operation Beachhead and its events are 100% volunteer-run and funded entirely through donations.

Volunteers include local surfers, friends and pre-med students, some of whom have no previous surfing experience, but who bring keen medical awareness and compassion.

Steve Stillman, a Manasquan resident and active board member, has been working with Operation Beachhead for fifteen years.

“I was approached by a friend about helping at the first event, and I’ve been helping ever since,” says Stillman. “We are powered by volunteers but fueled by heart.”

Events typically run from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. with snacks and lunch provided. “Participation is completely free. All that’s required is a ‘good vibe’ and a willingness to enjoy the day,” says Stillman. Each participant completes a waiver and a brief questionnaire, with the help of an experienced volunteer to ensure safety and personalized support. The environment is flexible, welcoming and focused entirely

on each individual’s comfort level. If surfing isn’t right for a particular individual, Operation Beachhead also offers paddle boarding, boogie boarding and kayaking.

Experienced surfers and swimmers serve as catchers, securing participants as they ride waves toward the shore. Others stay further in the water, guiding surfboards and stabilizing riders. Volunteers also assist participants in kayaks or on paddleboards, while land-based volunteers form enthusiastic cheering squads, making sure every participant feels celebrated and safe.

In the winter months, the organization shifts its focus to modified sled hockey, adaptive skiing and ice skating, continuing its mission to bring adventure and connection all year round.

“THE BEACH IS MY HAPPY PLACE”

Heidi Plummer is a Jackson resident who was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis 14 years ago. When her friend and “fellow ‘MS’er” Suzanne first

THE BOARD

Operation Beachhead, Board of Directors

“Our events wouldn’t be possible without the tireless dedication from our board of directors, who give up their time to support the participants, organize events and ensure that every experience is unforgettable.”

• Michael Ricci, Founder

• Bruce Boyle

• John Ricci

• Steve Stillman

• Pat Lackey

• Rich Smith

• Alex Branch

• Hap Auch

invited her to an Operation Beachhead event, Heidi was initially hesitant. But after attending her first session, she never looked back. “It means so much to me,” says Heidi. “I love nature, but I had never experienced being out in the water. The water brings me peace. The beach is my happy place.”

From that first day, Heidi found a place where she could feel strong, connected and supported. “When you ride a wave in, they make it a big deal. Everyone cheers for you. Without the volunteers, none of this would happen. They have big hearts and big smiles.”

With the support of volunteers like Steve Stillman, Heidi has ridden waves and kayaked alongside dolphins. Even though MS affects her balance, she’s set a bold personal goal for herself.

“This year, I’m going to stand up on a surfboard for the first time.”

During the winter months, Heidi also participates in Operation Beachhead’s sled hockey program. “It’s more than sports,” she says. “It’s about joy, courage and community.”

This month, Michael Ricci celebrates his 80th birthday. Decades after Vietnam, he continues to battle mobility issues from the shrapnel lodged in his body. But he’s still refusing to sit still and personally attends and photographs every Operation Beachhead event. The images he captures help to inspire new participants and to generate support for the organization’s fundraising efforts.

Meanwhile, the Operation Beachhead community has become stronger than ever. Participants travel from across

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New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania and beyond. For many local families, the program has become a summer tradition. Each event is a testimony to the power of human resilience, and the healing wonders of the ocean.

“At the end of the day, you will feel it” says Stillman. “It’s impossible not to.”

To get involved, follow Operation Beachhead on Facebook or visit operationbeachhead.com. Special thanks to Jeff Rataski for contributing his photography to this story.

Molly Mechler is a dedicated mother, seasoned educator, avid reader, recreational runner, thrifty shopper and local beach lover.

Inspiration

Runs in the Family

Sisters Maie and Alexandra Vaga join forces and draw inspiration from their childhood to create unique treasures.

BY DANIELLE KUTCHER

EENDLESS BEACH DAYS and long bike rides against the backdrop of Brielle and Manasquan provided sisters Maie and Alexandra Vaga the freedom to explore and cultivate their artistic talents. Their creativity was also deeply influenced by their family, who nurtured their passion and provided the support that shaped their artistic journey in a way that is still prevalent in their work today.

EARLY YEARS

Maie and Alexandra grew up in Brielle and attended Saint Catharine School

in Spring Lake. For them, these years were filled with absolute freedom to explore Brielle and Manasquan, where they forged lifelong friendships and cultivated a deep sense of community. They spent countless hours by the ocean, indulging in snack stand treats, swimming and unwinding. These were the uncomplicated pleasures of summer. Maie and Alexandra recall that their hometown “was our playground, strolling through town, always discovering something to do.” Their imagination guided their days, allowing them to

nurture their creativity with ease.

The sisters were always immersed in arts and crafts, constantly encouraged by their artistic mother to create with their hands. Instead of traditional toys for occasions, they received art materials. A close family friend also taught them how to paint at a young age, introducing them to color, composition and technique, which made a lasting impression on them. The impact of creating, building and exploring during their early years continues to shape their designs today.

“We spent so much time making, building and exploring, which is what we do now in our businesses. The inspiration from those early years still influences our designs today,” says Maie.

ARTISTS AT WORK

Alexandra Vaga is a ceramic artist, designer and owner of Source

and Tradition in Bay Head. She specializes in high-volume, handmade productions. For the past two decades, Alexandra has been dedicated to refining her expertise in ceramics and bridging craftsmanship with functional design. She creates exclusive collections for Michelin-starred restaurants and world-renowned chefs. Each piece is handcrafted in her Bay Head studio, where she welcomes visitors from April through December.

Maie Vaga has owned the popular go-to spot Noon in Spring Lake and Bay Head for the past 16 years. Noon offers some of the best organic coffee, tea and fresh baked goods served every day by friendly baristas. It is also home to thoughtfully designed handmade jewelry and American-made home goods as well as body products designed by Maie and her business partner Nora Alexander.

What’s even more special? Maie and Alexandra’s stores are side by side in Bay Head.

Despite having had different paths, their foundations are the same. Both sisters have a dedication to craftmanship, obsessive attention to detail and a commitment to making things of lasting beauty. They are constantly inspiring and supporting one another, with both of their businesses rooted in craftsmanship and artistry. Each has a deep-rooted desire to see each other succeed, not only in business, but also in life.

Alexandra praises Maie as a “force in the retail and design world,” and Maie shares that Alexandra consistently shows her “the true meaning of integrity.” They have a foundation of trust and shared values that have been instrumental in shaping their journey together.

A JOINT VENTURE

It’s a natural evolution that the sisters decided to collaborate on something deeply personal. They cherished their grandmother, who had an incredible eye for beauty and craftmanship. Her China, a collection rich in both beauty and nostalgia, holds special meaning to their family. To Maie and Alexandra, the pieces hold stories and are “more than a set of dishes; they are a tangible connection to her, to family meals, to tradition.”

Maie and Alexandra wanted to modernize the heirloom pieces that were passed down to them while keeping their soul intact.

The project seamlessly blends Alexandra’s ceramic craftsmanship with Maie’s graphic design expertise, resulting in a oneof-a-kind creation where their two artistic languages converge beautifully. They have blended handpainted drawings with delicate porcelain and ceramics that honor old-world elegance while making it feel fresh and relevant for today.

According to the sisters: “This collaboration isn’t just about aesthetics; it’s about legacy. It’s about taking something that belonged to our past and making it part of the future. That’s what excites us—knowing that these new pieces will sit on tables, be part of meals and create new memories for years to come.”

Alexandra is selling the full porcelain collection at Source and Tradition in Bay Head, and Maie has a display available at Noon in the Spring Lake shop.

Danielle is a local mom of three and a retired elementary school teacher. She enjoys theatre, reading and going on adventures with her family.

and Alexandra’s

endeavor.

This page: The girls with their Grandmother, Irene K. Switlik, who served as the beautiful inspiration behind their latest sister collaboration; Alexandra and Maie ready for a late 1980s school day in their St. Catharine uniforms.

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Three Generations, One Calling

For these three amazing women, education is more than a passion. It’s a legacy.

BY MOLLY MECHLER

TTEACHING AND MOTHERHOOD

share a common thread: Both require patience, dedication and endless amounts of love. Just as mothers shape the hearts and minds of their children, teachers guide and inspire their students, often becoming second mothers along the way.

The Kitley-Antonucci family is a shining example of how the roles of educator and caregiver often intertwine, ultimately molding both

students and communities. Sharon Kitley, Tracey (née Kitley) Antonucci and Jane Antonucci have dedicated a combined 52 years to shaping young minds, carrying on a legacy of education that spans three generations.

For these three women, teaching isn’t just a profession. It’s a calling. Despite working in different classrooms and districts, they share the same unwavering commitment to their students.

A SHARED CALLING

When Sharon Kitley’s husband Bill was drafted into military service, Sharon and their young daughter, Tracey, moved in with her parents. Seeing this change as an opportunity for growth, Sharon enrolled in classes at Kean University. She was initially set on pursuing a business degree but soon realized that her true calling was in education. She began her teaching career in the late 1970s and early 1980s and became especially passionate about special education.

“I grew up at the end of the polio epidemic, and some of my classmates had polio. It’s what drew me towards special education and making sure everyone can learn,” says Sharon. Witnessing the challenges faced by her peers inspired Sharon to ensure that every child, regardless of ability, has access to a supportive and inclusive education. Sharon retired in 2000 after 20 years in Middletown Township, where she left a lasting and

profound impact on her students and the community.

While growing up at the Jersey Shore, Tracey Antonucci worked as both a lifeguard and a swimming instructor. But she was inspired by her mother to pursue elementary education at The Catholic University of America.

“I always knew I wanted to be a teacher. I loved kids and babysat a lot. But honestly, I also loved summer and wanted to be able to go to the beach,” says Tracey with a laugh.

After college, Tracey spent three years teaching in Maryland. She returned to New Jersey in 1995, where she accepted a job in Middletown Township. This found Tracey and Sharon working in the same district but at different schools. “Middletown is a big district,” says Tracey. “Even though we were in the same system for five years, we never worked in the same building.”

At Thompson Middle School, Tracey’s first teaching placement, she met a physical education teacher

named Steve Antonucci. Steve and Tracey fell quickly in love, married in 1998, and eventually settled in Manasquan to raise their family.

For over 27 years, Tracey and Steve have been happily married and working in the same field—although they insist on commuting separately during their daily drive along the Garden State Parkway. “Steve is at the high school, and I teach third grade. We have different schedules. I’m always rushing, and he would never want to carpool with me!”

Steve plans to retire this year and Tracey prepares to follow in the near future. Meanwhile, their daughter Jane is stepping into the family tradition and beginning her own teaching career.

Jane Antonucci studied elementary education at James Madison University. Like her grandmother, she initially pursued a degree in business before realizing teaching was her true calling. “After taking six business classes, it was obvious it wasn’t for me,” says Jane.

GETTING CANDID

A rapid-fire Q&A with the three amazing women who participated in this story.

What or who inspires you?

Sharon: “My husband, Bill. He’s always so positive. His glass isn’t just half full, it’s overflowing. I’m a worrier, and he keeps me grounded.”

Tracey: “My family. Steve and our five children. Each one of them inspires me in different ways every day.”

Jane: “The women in my life: My grandmother, mom and aunts. I look up to all of them.”

What would your students be surprised to learn about you?

Sharon: “I was a competitive swimmer and swam backstroke on swim teams.”

Tracey: “I used to give swimming lessons and work as a lifeguard.”

Jane: “That I’m left-handed, and that I don’t actually live at school.”

What is one of your hidden talents?

Sharon: “I can talk to anyone. I have the gift of gab and feel comfortable in most crowds. Plus, I like to think I have a decent sense of humor!”

Tracey: “I have a (semi) green thumb.”

Jane: “Singing karaoke.”

“I loved kids, and I knew I was meant to be a teacher, so I switched my major.”

Although she continues her family’s teaching legacy, Jane does not work in Middletown. Instead, she is forging her own path in the Upper Freehold Regional School District, where she teaches fourth grade. “I would’ve loved to work with my mom and dad in Middletown, but I was offered this position, and I couldn’t be happier here.”

Whether at home or in the classroom, motherhood and teaching require love, encouragement and an unwavering belief in the next generation. This month, in honor of all of the local graduation ceremonies, we celebrate the powerful impact that parents and teachers have in shaping the future—one hug, one lesson and one word of encouragement at a time.

Molly Mechler is a dedicated mother, seasoned educator, avid reader, recreational runner, thrifty shopper and local beach lover.

If you won the lottery and gave up teaching, what would you do instead?

Sharon:“I’d be a photographer. I love taking pictures.”

Tracey: “I’d work at an animal shelter.”

Jane: “I’d own a women’s clothing store with casual, everyday clothes. I love to shop!”

If your classroom had a mascot, what would it be?

Sharon: “A bear, specifically a polar bear, to go along with my favorite unit in winter.”

Tracey: “A butterfly. I’ve hatched them before, and I love calling my students my little butterflies.”

Jane: “Party Peeps, with a disco ball hanging from the ceiling in my classroom.”

If you were a superhero, what would your teaching power be?

Sharon: “I’d be the Kindness Fairy. No bullying, just kindness and acceptance. Everyone would treat each other with respect.”

Tracey:“Teleportation so I’m never late and don’t have to sit in traffic!”

Jane: “The ability to make my students laugh and always knowing how to cheer them up...or maybe mind reading!”

A Patriotic Kickoff to Summer

Wellness Watch with Meghan Schultzel.

AS MEMORIAL DAY Weekend approaches, our nation pauses to honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice to protect our freedom. The Murph Challenge, a grueling yet inspiring workout, pays tribute to Lt. Michael P. Murphy, a Navy SEAL who gave his life in 2005.

During Operation Red Wings in Afghanistan, Lt. Murphy sacrificed his life braving enemy fire in order to call for backup to his team. He was posthumously awarded the Medal of Honor, and ultimately inspired the

Murph Challenge, uniting gyms and fitness centers nationwide with a workout that honors all fallen heroes.

This iconic workout includes a 1-mile run, 100 pull-ups, 200 pushups, 300 squats and concludes with another 1-mile run—all with a 20-pound vest. The regimen can be brutal, but the tradition keeps Lt. Murphy’s courage and selflessness alive as thousands of participants across the world have taken the challenge and tested their own athletic limits.

This Memorial Day, join the Murph Challenge at one of these fitness locations, and be sure to tag @manasquanbriellemagazine when you participate!

• Syst[EM] Athletics, Manasquan (Monday, May 26) Free for active military, veterans, New Jersey State Troopers, local police and first responders. Event includes workout, BBQ, unlimited sauna and cold plunge. Visit systemathletics.com for details.

• Salt Fitness Project, Manasquan (Sunday, May 25, 9 a.m.) $30 drop-in fee includes breakfast and an optional $30 T-shirt. Drop-ins welcome or you can pre-register at saltfitnessproject.com or email [email protected].

• Amp’d Fitness, Brielle Visit ampdfitnessnj.com for Murph event details.

The Murph is also a powerful way to kick off summer; it’s a chance to reflect on gratitude while pushing physical limits. Local gyms like Syst[EM] Athletics, Salt Fitness Project and AMP’d Fitness host Murph events, inviting everyone to join in this patriotic tradition, with routines that are scalable for all fitness levels. Pull-ups can be modified with resistance bands or ring rows, push-ups done on knees and squats adjusted for depth or reps. Beginners might skip the vest, while advanced

WELLNESS WATCH UPCOMING EVENTS

When: Wednesdays, 6 a.m.

What: A Balanced Body Personal Training Where: Manasquan High School Field House Register: Manasquan Community Pass

When: Tuesdays, 7:30 a.m.

What: Yoga with Colleen McCrone

Where: Manasquan Community Center Register: Manasquan Community Pass

When: June 21

What: SGT Nutter 5K

Where: Sea Girt Register: runsignup.com

When: Wednesdays and Fridays, July to August

What: : Pilates on the Beach

Where: Pompano Ave Beach Register: Manasquan Community Pass

When: August 2, 8 a.m.

What: Manasquan Ocean Mile & HalfMile Swim

Where: Sea Watch Beach Register: raceforum.com

When: August 30

What: Belmar 5 Mile Run Where: Belmar Register: runsignup.com

When: September 6

What: Brielle Day Hill & Dale 10K Challenge Where: Brielle Register: runsignup.com

athletes embrace the full challenge.

“It’s an event to honor Lt. Michael Murphy and all who gave their lives,” says Emmy Simpkins, owner of Syst[EM] Athletics. The Syst[EM] event will be held Monday May 26, and will feature saunas, cold plunges, bagpipes and a BBQ. It’s free for active military, veterans, New Jersey State Troopers, local police and first responders.

Kyle Schwartz, owner of Salt Fitness Project, emphasizes accessibility for their event, which is being held Sunday, May 25: “The event is infinitely scalable,

ensuring everyone feels supported,”

Hosting over 50 athletes, Saltwater’s 9:00 a.m. event includes a whiteboard briefing, two heats and a catered breakfast.

“We show up to honor those who served, recognizing that their sacrifice is what allows us to do what we love every day,” says Schwartz.

The Murph Challenge can be exhausting, but it’s more than just a workout. It’s a heartfelt thank you to our heroes that sets a purposeful tone for summer

Want to be featured in an upcoming Wellness Watch? Have a fitness or wellness event that you’d like featured? Reach out to [email protected].

BOOK

NOOK

Hot off the Press in Paperback!

As we inch closer to summer, lighten your load with these great books that are brand-new in paperback!

BY LEIGH MALLIN

ANNA O

by Matthew Blake

At 25 years old, Anna Ogilvy is an aspiring writer with a bright future ahead of her. Then, a camping trip goes horrifically wrong; Anna kills two friends while sleepwalking and falls into a coma. Dr. Benedict Prince is a forensic psychologist who specializes in sleep-related crimes, tasked with the job of waking Anna so that she can stand trial. What were the events leading up to the murders? Should Anna be held responsible for these crimes? This is an edge-of-yourseat psychological thriller for fans of “The Silent Patient” and “Gone Girl.”

REMARKABLY BRIGHT CREATURES

by Shelby Van Pelt

Readers everywhere have been waiting for the paperback edition of this New York Times bestseller! Tova is a grieving widow who, while working the night shift at a local aquarium, forms a unique and heartwarming connection with Marcellus, a giant Pacific octopus. Told partly from Tova’s point of view and partly from Marcellus’, this is a beautiful, uplifting novel about friendship and family, hope and resilience and reckoning with our pasts to uncover a brighter future. A must read!

GOOD MATERIAL

by Dolly Alderton

Andy is a struggling comedian who has just been dumped by Jen, his longtime live-in girlfriend. He still loves her and doesn’t have any idea why she left. The first three quarters of the novel are told from Andy’s point of view, as he tries to move on in the wake of heartbreak. The last portion is told from Jen’s side, which allows the reader to understand why she ended things. The contrasting points of view make the characters feel heartfelt and true to life. Alderton perfectly encapsulates all of the feelings that go along with losing a love.

HONEY

by Victor Lodato

This is a thoroughly enjoyable novel about the rebellious teenage daughter of a New Jersey gangster. The character of Honey is delightful; I loved her honesty, strength and humor. I laughed out loud at various points, but don’t assume that this is a light read. Lodato tackles heavy issues with grace, tenderness and beautiful writing. Honey’s voice is unforgettable.

TOM LAKE

by Ann Patchett

I usually shy away from pandemic novels, but I’m so glad I read this one. Set on a cherry orchard in Northern

Michigan, Lara’s three daughters return home to help their parents get through the spring of 2020. While harvesting cherries, the girls beg Lara to tell them stories of her life before she became a mother—particularly stories about Peter Duke, a famous actor with whom Lara shared both the stage and a romance. I loved this simple yet layered story about mothers and daughters. If you are an audiobook person, Meryl Streep provides the narration, and it’s divine! A perfect warm weather book!

LONG ISLAND COMPROMISE

by Taffy Brodesser-Akner

This highly entertaining novel opens with the kidnapping of wealthy businessman Carl Fletcher. Less than a week later, the ransom is paid, and Carl is returned to his family, seemingly unharmed. They all move on with their lives, or so it would seem. Fast forward forty years, and the truth is that none of the dysfunctional Fletchers have ever gotten over Carl’s kidnapping. Equal parts poignant, heartbreaking and laugh out loud funny, this is a multi-generational drama centered on a traditional Jewish family and their ideals. Reads like it was made for TV! (Paperback releases May 20.)

Leigh Mallin is a bookseller at BookTowne.

BASELINE DRIVE

CONGRATULATIONS AGAIN to the girls of Manasquan High School basketball, who took home the NJSIAA Group 2 Championship—their third in four years, and the eighth state title for head coach Lisa Kukoda. From left to right: Shea Donnelly, Kayden Clark, Grace Love and Paige Donnelly. “Jersey Mike Cassella” snapped this epic shot of the girls’ triumphant post-victory bus ride. Catch all of the best local action shots by following @jerseymike_sports.

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